What is Upshot-Dating™?
Hello I am Anina, Founder and Consultant of the High Class Woman. Upshot Dating ™ is my Signature System. Upshot-Dating ™ is the absolute best dating system out there.
Upshot-Dating™ is how I met & married my husband within 9 months. Our story has led us all across the globe, with our first date in Singapore, a proposal in the Middle East and a wedding on a boat from France to Ireland.
Upshot-Dating ™ is how my clients, find Testimonails here do the same; they meet and marry men, fast and heartbreak free.
Find a Client Case Study here: From Conventional Dating to Upshot-Dating™, Lilly’s Success Story.
Upshot-Dating™ is a collection of the very best dating practices from all around the world.
Based on my life experience and multicultural background Upshot-Dating™ is a Fusion of East and West.
I have kept the best of both worlds and tossed out what does not work.
Upshot-Dating™ is the most self-determined, effective and evolved way to date for modern and strong women.
It takes into account everything that modern science knows about women and love but does not allow you to get lost and confused about what it means to be a woman.
Upshot-Dating™is outcome oriented dating and the most self-valuing way a modern woman can date.
While my clients draw healthy boundaries around their hearts, body, time and energy, as women who value themselves should.
My clients are the only ones in charge of their decisions, as to whom they marry and at what terms.
A fundamental pillar of my consulting system is to train my clients to make conscious, informed self determined choices.
Upshot-Dating™ starts with defining your dating goal. 🎯
For example: dating to get married/be in a committed lifelong partnership and then reverse-engineering the steps you need to get there. This means you put your actions in dating in alignment with your dating goal.
Before my clients even set foot into the dating world, they have already defined the end result and are making sure they are a match to it.
All as opposed to dating and seeing what happens, prioritising wanting a specific man over the relationship of your dreams (your UPSHOT).
Which can cost you precious (maybe even childbearing) years of your life. Let alone what this does to your heart and self value.
Part of Upshot-Dating™ also means to not allow any man to test-wife™ you.
Test-wifing™ is a word I made up and as the pun intends, describes a situation, where you act as a wife, before a man has officially gone all the way for you.
Upshot-Dating™ can mean to date more than one man at the same time, which is completely harmless as it does not imply sex (unless you want to).
It is the traditional, time-saving way to get to know several men and see who is a fit for life.
Read here: What Upshot-Dating™ is not.
Upshot-Dating™ is compatible with Feminism as it is highly self-determined, all the while understating that a romantic relationship works differently from friendships, family or work relationships.
Upshot-Dating™values your heart and prevents you from committing to the wrong man, i.o. words; a man who is not (for whatever reason) able/ready to give you the relationship you have defined as your upshot.
This is not only respectful towards your time and energy, but also to that of a man. Dating this way, also effortlessly weeds out men who are not on the same page as you.
By combining the best of dating from East and West, modern and traditional, scientific and spiritual, Upshot-Dating™ is the most self-determined, evolved and effective way to date for any woman.
Because Upshot-Dating™ can be customised easily it works well for all women who want to find love.
Regardless of your cultural background, language, religions beliefs, or if you are an atheist, as long as you are a woman looking for true love, Upshot-Dating™ will work for you and you are welcome here.
Lots of Love, Anina 💋