Read here what my private consultation clients are saying. 

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Dear Anina, over the holidays I wanted to make some time and send you my Love and appreciation (Please do use this publicly as a Testimony to your work - more women, no, every woman needs to know about you!). I have come so far working with you and I am committed to coming back to you for more as I evolve and keep creating my wonderful life. 

Before I met you, I was a single mother, divorced, hard working and burnt out. My love life was nonexistent, my dating life a disaster to say it mildly. Even investing thousands of Euros and painful hours into therapy has not really done it for me. Your embodiment and focus on fun while doing the inner work did it record time. As a medical Dr. myself, I can say you are a true gem in the world of healing and self development. I keep sending my female patients to you!

You helped me draw boundaries, value myself, reconnect to my feminine side and find true love with a man who literally worships the ground I walk on. I am so blessed looking at my life, my fiance whom I attracted in record time through your system and my wonderful home and most of all the way I feel deep inside about myself and my worth.

~ All my Love, Dr. Trudy ♥

Before I met Anina, I was in a relationship that wasn't going anywhere.

He would forget my birthday, discuss other women, and leave me feeling like there was something wrong with me. I spent hundreds if not thousands of hours trying to think my way through it all. My boundaries and self-worth were non-existent, despite recently graduating from a top 5 US college as a budding scientist. I knew I needed help and that my therapist wasn't cutting it.

I interviewed several coaches and found Anina to be a perfect fit. She gave me concrete homework so I could develop the skills to handle relationship situations from within. There were no shame games and no pity parties of never-ending feelings. I feel like myself before all those bad habits piled up; all of my relationships have changed for the better and I don't agonise over every little move.

I remember reading testimonials like this just a year ago thinking "there is no way this transformation can happen for me" with my stubborn, nerdy, tomboy personality. But it did!

~ Bella, Medical Student, U.S.

I strongly recommend Anina to any woman who wants more than just hard-earned success in her career. 

~ Diana, Self-made Millionaire, Vienna Austria

Anina helped me immensely in my binational marriage. 

She immediately understood how, and why exactly my husband and I were clashing. I never felt so comfortable and understood. Anina’s judgement- free and warm way of communicating, made it easy for me to open up.

Through consultations, I was able to resolve all the issues my husband and I were struggling with for years. I am still amazed that this was possible solely through consultations with Anina and from my side alone! 

Especially, if you have a multicultural background, and / or a binational marriage, Anina is the absolutely right person for you.

~ Beatrice, Economist / CEO, Belgium

Anina you are absolute MAGIC !!

~ Lilly Levi, Bank Director, Germany

Issues my husband and I have been struggling with and discussing to death for years, are the past.

I could see how the repetitive arguments were pulling us further apart and understood that I needed help.

Things feel so light and easy now. Thank you so very much dear Anina.

~ Matty, Architect, Sweden 

She hits the nail on the head, each time she consults you! 

It was a big step for me to invest in private consultations and accept help. But I am glad I did!

Anina is one of a kind; there is no drama and no blah blah, just solutions and tools to implement outside of the sessions. Following her advice has absolutely changed  my life. 

I am a lawyer, have a very successful career and my own law firm. My private life, being a woman and romance, was on the back burner for years.

With Anina’s guidance, I know the ring is on the way. I can feel it and never felt this great. 

Thank you Anina you are the best!

~ Monique, Lawyer, Switzerland and U.S.

I felt lost in Dating and now I am a Queen who can have her pick.

Good men keep courting me and I know the best will win. 

Thank you Anina!

~ Amira, Teacher, U.K.

The divorce papers were on the table, a lot of money spent on other coaches, couple therapy exhausted and I had no idea what else I could do.  

My heart was broken into pieces. We had been together since high school and I could not believe I was going to be a single mother of two boys. 

Anina encouraged me to give it one last try. Because I felt there was something special about Anina and her consulting system, I began private consultation. 

In six months of working privately, I went from almost losing my family, to a life in which we are happier than ever. I never thought it was possible to be this happy and loved after 16 years of marriage and two babies.

Yesterday, on mother’s day, he and our two sons surprised me with flowers and breakfast in bed. Thank you for saving my family and for showing me how to have a fulfilled romantic relationship also as parents.

~ Natasha, IT Specialist, Germany

The love of my life and the most handsome man proposed to me last night. He is my best friend and always there for me. I made all this happen through Upshot Dating^TM . 

~ Aviva, Editor, Alaska

I am a plastic surgeon with my own praxis. My husband and I had been married for seven years, with two daughters. We were fine, but between all the responsibilities, both our work schedules, the children and just daily life, I felt something was missing. 

I discovered Anina through one of my patients, who was suddenly glowing from the inside out and shortly after got engaged. 

After speaking to Anina, I went straight to the gold level, the private consultations. 

Anina helped me acknowledge my desires for more romance and passion and subsequently showed me how to make this happen in my marriage. I will continue to learn from Anina and I am so glad I found her.

~ Gabriela, Plastic Surgeon, Switzerland 

Anina has given me a completely new perspective on what it means and most of all FEELS to be a woman. 

We instantly clicked when we spoke, Anina felt like a long lost sister and at the same time the new more advanced version of myself. She showed me what is possible for me, who I truly am and how to access this high class version of myself. 

The tools and skills she shared, enable me to continue this work independently. I really appreciate how important her clients' independence is to Anina and how much she respects their individuality. 

My whole life has changed for the better in each area, and as the cherry on top, I also found the man of my dreams, and got engaged in less than a year. 

I used Anina’s signature system, Upshot Dating^TM. Dating this way is great fun and so self empowering. I shared this heartbreak proof way of dating with all my girlfriends. 

Thank you so much for coming into my life Anina, I love you!

~ Katy, International Relations Specialist, Europe 

Consulting with you is the best thing I have ever done for myself.

~ Katarina, Psychologist, New Zealand

I was 35 when I started working with several love coaches, because I was panicked to get married. Nothing worked and even after investing thousands, I still could not see any results. My family pressured me and my younger cousins were all married before me. 

I took one last leap of faith, by hiering Anina. It was the best thing I could have done. Already in our first session, she went deep and straight to the point. Even though the topics were so, so personal, she managed to make me feel comfortable through it all. 

I feel while other coaches were waddling around and scratching the surface, she just cracked the case within two sessions and sped up my process immensely. Anina's skillful 1:1 support and Upshot Dating^TM got me engaged in 9 months!

Thank you Anina I will be forever grateful for your help.

~ Solmaz, Chemist, England

I found Anina when I was a single mother of three and had not dated since the age of 17. Everything was different, especially in the online space. 

Anina was like a fairy godmother and I have no idea what I would have done without her. 

I met my new husband through online dating and we are now a happy family, with another baby on the way. 

Thank you Anina for everything you taught me !

~ Klara, Hotel Manager, South Africa

All my patients notice my beautiful big ring and I love the way it shines. Upshot Dating^TM  made it possible. 

~ Mila, Dentist, U.S.

I was at the peak of my career, with a booming, self-built business and brand. I had everything, the house, the cars, the looks and still no success in love. Separated from both baby daddies and a single mom of four children, between the age of six months and nine years. 

It was tough for me to face the mess my love life was in. And I couldn't understand why, it did not work out for me. I am strong, caring, disciplined, hard working and good looking. Still, cheated on and left twice, by the men I had babies with. 

Through Anina’s consultations, I was able to see that what brought me success as a fitness influencer, businesswoman and mother, pushed men and love away. 

At first I resisted this, but Anina picked me up right where I was, and helped me through this process. 

My Ex and I got back together and this time round, I know so much better. I make an effort to switch modes between: business woman, mother, lover, like Anina trained me to.

I will continue to learn from Anina and make sure my girls know this too. 

~ Talia, Fitness Influencer and Businesswoman, U.S.

Before I met Anina I was in a relationship with a man I met through work and I did everything for him. I am a GP, he is a Pharmacist. On my days off, I kept him company during his night shift, slept over at his pharmacy, cooked him home made food and brought it over. I thought we were a good match. Both educated and successful and that I am an excellent partner and soon to be wife. 

After two years, he left me for a woman, who has no money, is less educated than us and to my shock, does not do half of what I did for him. He then began providing for her, because she wanted to study Spanish and be a stay at home wife. So he married her! After telling me for two years that marriage was not necessary to be together. I could not believe it, my world was upside down. 

By chance, I came across Anina’s work and became her private client. It was a hard truth to digest, that men do not love us for our accomplishments, or if we mother them (on the contrary), but for the way they feel around us and that they fall in love by giving to us. I could see why he married her after a few months, while he told me for two years that we did not need marriage even though, or better, because I did not much. 

My broken heart and bruised ego needed some time and I could not have done it without Anina. She was so kind and compassionate all the while she consulted me through this tough period of my life.

Today, I am a completely different woman. I am now in a relationship with a man who takes care of me, cooks for me and spoils me. Our dynamic is completely different to what I had in my previous relationship. I am at the receiving end of the relationship and it is so healing for me to feel this valued and poured into.

~ Ute, GP, Germany

Since last weekend I am fiancée. It was amazing and super romantic. 

~ Irit, Fashion Designer, France

As a female pilot, flying passenger planes, I was proud to be a strong modern woman and convinced men just could not handle that. I refused to be silly and weak and dumb down all my accomplishments, for the sake of being in a relationship and making it work. 

This attitude and lifestyle was fine for me in my teens and twenties. All my life was dedicated to my career. I got to see the world and took great pride in being a pilot. 

When my brother got married and his wife had their first baby, something in me began to change. I felt left out, because I thought having a family was not possible for me, as I was different. Too strong, too smart, too intelligent. 

One night, to be completely honest, when I was crying alone in my airport hotel, I began my search. I looked up dozens of coaches and spoke to some. But none of them convinced me. Then my colleague told me about Anina, a physicist turned coach, and how Anina saved her marriage to her husband. 

Fast forward to today, as I write this, I am pregnant, at 40 years young, got an engagement ring on my finger and next week will be our legal wedding in a small circle. 

The dream wedding will take place next summer, at the beach when our baby is born and I will fit back into the beautiful wedding dress I chose. 

I can have it all - be a female pilot and the Queen of his Heart.

~ Sarah, Pilot, Frankfurt / Germany

I was doubtful about all this at first, but everything Anina says makes absolute sense. She is the real deal! Private consultation was the best investment I have ever made in myself and in building my life. 

Anina finds the right way and words to enter into my, at times, quite rigid, scientific way of thinking and brain. She encouraged me to open my heart more and get out of my head, into my body. 

She spontaneously created a custom made tool for me in a session. I am a marine biologist, water lilies are my favourite plants. Anina told me to visualise a water lily, firmly rooted in the ground, which keeps me safe and grounded. As a next step she asked me to open up my heart just like the pedals of my favourite lily. I regularly practise this tool, still ongoing, whenever I feel I need it. 

Anina also helped me redefine, what it means, to be a modern woman. That I can design my life, in a way, that is right, for me individually. I love the concept of the High Class Woman. 

After about a year of working with Anina, I got engaged to the love of my life, who is also my best friend. I went from rational, a bit cynical and overthinking, to finding love and believing in it. 

My fiance was under my nose, the entire time, a fellow researcher. He always liked me, and calls me his goddess. I was only able to recognise this diamond in the rough, after I had become a new woman through Anina’s coaching.

We will get married in Hawaii, and want to raise our children here. It is my dream life, lived in bliss and I owe it all to Anina. 

~ Melissa, Biologist and Researcher, Hawaii

He popped the question after dinner last night at the beach. Thank you Anina. We met and got engaged within 4 months. Upshot Dating^TM works wonders!

~ Khalida, Data Scientist, Argentina

I found my Beshert (Soulmate) and had my dream wedding. 

Since my teenage years I wanted to find a husband and start a family. I love children and work as a paediatrician in my own praxis. 

I was “unlucky in love” and I could not understand, what was “wrong” with me. 

Throughout school and university, I was always top of the class. I took care of my looks and I went to Synagogue and prayed to find a good husband. I even consulted a traditional matchmaker in our community. 

All without results. I was almost resigned to my “bad luck” and thought I was going to stay single and be that old spinster everyone pities.

Everything changed the day I met Anina!

In my faith, they say, there is a special place in heaven for people like Anina, who reunite soulmates on earth. 

I will be forever grateful to you Anina. You have helped me find the love of my life, when I had almost lost hope. 

We are starting a family and I know he is everything and more that I ever hoped and prayed for. 

~ Yelena, Paediatrician, Frankfurt / Germany

I found the love of my life through Upshot Dating^TM . Thank you Anina for everything you do! 

~ Betty, Medical Dr. U.S.

I have eight children, one from a previous relationship. My five sisters all have several children too. My mother and my older sister are both married for the second time. So was my grandmother. My little sisters were both going through a divorce and a trial separation. 

It seems to run in the family to be good mothers, but less good with choosing men. I wanted to understand why, and prevent my second divorce from happening. 

What I instantly liked about Anina, was how respected she made me feel. She has an absolute gift to see you, for who you are and brings out the best version of yourself. 

She very gently helped me understand that my gift of being a great mother, which is something she told me to be proud of, is a different skill set, to that of being the girl he never falls out of love with. 

Anina's advice has totally changed my life and I can safely say, I broke the lineage and modelled a new way, to my daughters and younger sisters and nieces. 

Forever grateful to you Anina.

~ Melany, Stay-at-home-mother, Luxembourg

Already our first consultation helped me switch something and every date from then on was a totally different experience. Two years later I am married and expecting my first baby. 

I want every woman to know that Anina changes your life and helps you make all your dreams come true!

~ Ayala, Business Consultant, Italy

We got engaged and he absolutely managed to surprise me, went down on one knee and told me I am the love of his life. 

~ Daniela, Physicist, U.S.

I found a wonderful step daddy for my little daughter, a man who cares about my happiness and that of my child first. He would do anything to see us smile. 

Before I worked with Anina, I believed no man would date a single mother. 

Anina changed the way I see myself from the inside out. I have never been happier and more confident. 

Since working with Anina my energy has completely changed and my own business is flourishing and clients come to me like bees to honey. 

My little daughter is going to be way ahead, I am showing her by example, how to love herself and how to have good taste in men. She is learning how to choose good men who treat you well and are reliable. 

Thank you Anina! You have also helped my little daughter by helping me. 

~ Ava, Beautician and Business Owner, Europe

All my life has been dedicated to building my company and at 56, I believed myself too old for love, until I met Anina. 

I have found a wonderful partner, who spoils me and treats me like a Queen. Which I have given myself permission to receive and enjoy, just like Anina taught me. 

It never felt this good to be a woman and in my own skin. Anina's class and wisdom make her an excellent consultant. 

~ Clarissa, Business Woman, U.S.

From the first moment, Anina’s passion and skills shine through. She meets you exactly where you are at and creates customised tools for you within seconds while consulting. 

Experiencing her in action is simply amazing. I have seen many people in her field, but never someone as skilled and who gets you such phenomenal results fast. 

~ Amely, Midwife, U.S.

I am engaged to the love of my life and also found a wonderful father for my child.

I went from being a single mother to happily engaged in 11 months. 

~ Habiba, Engineer, Morocco

I met Anina when we both worked as models. Already back then, between all these gorgeous and perfect looking chicks, she had something special that I never forgot. 

We stayed in touch briefly and when Anina started her consulting business, I had just gotten divorced. I immediately knew it was time to learn from her. And I was blown away. This stuff is deep and it makes you the woman you are really meant to be. 

I am engaged to the man I will spend the rest of my life with and he is nothing what I thought he would be or I believed was looking for. He is sooo much better and treats me like a real Queen. 

For all of you women considering consultations with Anina, I can only say; do it! It is worth it.

~ Zaylee, Model, Paris and U.S.

He did it! He proposed! I am over the moon! Thank you a thousand times, Anina !

~ Eleanor, Pharmacist, Norway

This was absolutely eye opening! I had no idea how all the things I was doing, with my best intentions, were the reason why the relationships, with both my Exes and also with my Ex-fiance, ended badly and with a broken heart. 

I had a totally messed up dynamic, when it came to men and dating. 

Learning about polarity, understanding what really creates romantic attraction and how to face my intimacy fears, completely changed my love life!

Anina should write a PhD on all this! 

Being a feminine woman and feeling safe and calm while receiving from men, was a real challenge for me at first, because I am very independent and need my freedom. But this way is so much better and so nourishing. 

Through consultations, I also got clarity on what I am looking for; I want to get married, but don’t want children. 

I am now attracted to a completely different type of man, than I would fall for before Anina helped me overcome my chemistry based attraction. This shows how much I have healed my old patterns. 

I enjoy Upshot Dating^TM  and there are several men I am seeing. I know the ring is not far anymore.

~ Ricarda, Therapist, Spain

This young woman is an old soul! Anina, your wisdom is worth every cent!

I have referred my niece who wants to get married and start a family to Anina. 

When my little granddaughter comes of age, I will make sure she will learn from Anina.

Anina’s teachings will change the course of their life and make them very happy women.

~ Julietta, Psychiatrist / Trauma Specialist for Holocaust Survivors, Haifa / Israel and U.S.

I immediately liked the concept of the High Class Woman. Every area of my life has gotten better.

I found a way to eat that really nourished my body. I lost weight easily, something I tried hard before and which never worked. 

The way I manage my busy schedule and being on call have drastically improved. I feel very balanced and experience a lot less stress. 

I created an exercise routine that suits me. I have much more energy and sleep better. 

I also dared to completely restyle myself, got a different hair colour, haircut and a new wardrobe. I found my own style and I love it.

My family, friends and coworkers have all noticed the difference. I am happy and vibrant and get e lots of compliments.

Being myself never felt this good! I am so glad I found Anina’s work.

~ Stella, Medical Dr., Spain and South America 

I am engaged to the love of my life! He was at my parents house last night to ask for my hand in marriage. Today he officially proposed in our favourite park. I am so happy and very grateful to Anina.

~ Jasmine, Hotel Manager, Turkey

Anina saved my marriage. On the outside we were a power couple, but behind closed doors it felt like hell. 

During couple therapy, I could see my husband drifting even further away, it was like a car crash happening. On the day he told me he wanted to divorce and not do this anymore, I was devastated. 

If not for Anina, this would have been it. She taught me how to connect to my feminine and allow my husband to get back into his masculine. A concept the couple therapist was completely blind to. 

Within a few weeks, of only me being coached by Anina, our marriage was saved! I will continue to learn from Anina, to keep my marriage in this happy place.

~ Kallie, Pilot, Canada

Anina you give me hope ! So much has changed since I found you! Thank you !! 

I am using your dating advice and it works like a charm. Never before has dating been so easy. 

You are a gift from above.

~ Delila, Professional Ballerina, Paris